How to be a Great Guest and be invited back!
Social time, cocktail parties and celebration gatherings bring a relaxed element that allows personal connection to flourish. Pushing away from business agendas and the drive to get things done, takes a back seat during social gatherings. Often these kinds of interactions build warm memories and a deep loyalty. You make the guest list because you are part of the community. Do your part to assure that you are invited back! Here are some sure fire tips to guarantee your place on the “A” list.
• RSVP – Let your hostess know immediately of your plans to attend. This often gives her energetic enthusiasm when most needed. If you have a conflict, let her know ASAP. Just don’t be one of those that pick and choose the best party at the last minute, thinking that all options are open. You could very well have a permanent place on the fence or worse, the “B” guest list.
• Time – Plan to arrive close to the beginning time designated, never one minute early and never more than a few minutes late. It’s fun to watch a party unfold, plus you get the best parking and seats.
• Dress Code – As professionals, our closets are prepared, right? I personally look forward to the warmth and joy of gatherings ~ honor your hostess by looking great, as well as your date. And as my image professional, Colleen Abrie, AICI tells me, attention to grooming details shine in every personal style.
• Gifts – Stock up on fun hostess gifts. Entering with a box of chocolates, a bottle of wine or champagne is noticed and appreciated. Decorative flowering plants are favored over cut flowers these days, especially since interior color codes are so defined.
• Potlucks – In these economic times, this may be a resurging trend, plus it adds variety. If you bring a dish to share, make sure it’s beautifully plattered and ready to serve. There is nothing worse than a guest walking in and handing off the chore of displaying to the hostess, or a staff member. It just seems un-thoughtful.
• Conversation – be charming, be attentive, and be agreeable! Being a self-sufficient guest who mixes and mingles keeps you on the “A” list. Also, be sure to seek your hostess out upon arrival and exiting.
• Eating and Drinking ¬– Moderation is the key. Don’t arrive “starving” ~ eat a salad or snack before going. This will allow you to focus on people first, then the buffet table. Go easy on the alcohol for lots of reasons. Alternating with water adds to that wonderful hydration feeling.
• Know When it’s Time to Leave - Ending times are specifically chosen so the hostess can relax and not be “on” for the guests – it’s best to plan on leaving at the time set. However, if the hostess wants you to stay, she’ll let you know. If appropriate, and you’re one of the last ones, be prepared to kick off your heels, put an apron on and pitch in with the glasses.
• Thank you – Whether it’s a handwritten note, phone, text message or email, just do it. Be sure to include specifics, as generalit
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